Yearly Archives: 2015

A Good Night’s Sleep

Roughly a third of Americans report sleep difficulty, most commonly insomnia. The World Health Organization defines insomnia as a problem of falling or staying asleep, or of not feeling refreshed after sleep at least 3 times a week. In addition this is accompanied by daytime sleepiness, difficulty concentrating or increased irritability. If you’re experiencing problems sleeping it’s important to let your doctor know. There are a number of physical causes that increase insomnia. These include sleep apnea, restless legs syndrome, acid reflux with heartburn, arthritis, back pain, menopause, and certain medications that interfere with sleep.

Other complicating factors include jet lag, shift work, physical discomfort from an injury or surgery. In some of these situations, your doctor may want to focus on treating the underlying condition and possibly order a sleep study to further diagnose your difficulty. Consult with you doctor before using any over the counter sleep aids.

However, it’s important to note that there a number of “natural” things you can do independently that have the potential of providing you a great deal of relief. These actions are oftentimes referred to as “sleep hygiene”. Just as dental hygiene helps keep teeth and gums healthy, sleep hygiene promotes healthy sleep patterns.

Control your sleep environment.

  • If your mattress is uncomfortable, it may be time to replace it. Consumer Reports recommends a new mattress every 5-10 years. In the same way, pillows also need to be replaced regularly.
  • The room should be dark, cool (between 60-68 degrees is ideal) and quiet. Yes, people believe that the TV helps them to fall asleep, however, if left on throughout the night it interferes with deep sleep, contributing to not feeling refreshed in the morning. In fact, research is showing that the use of electronic screens up to an hour before bed stimulates the brain and makes falling asleep more difficult. Backlit devices and LED screens have the greatest negative effect.
  • Consider who’s in bed with you. A partner who snores or moves excessively during the night may be contributing to your sleep difficulty. In the same way, having babies or children in bed can also be disruptive. Finally, sharing your bed with pets can cause you to awaken multiple times during the night, by their moving about, making noise, or increasing the temperature in bed.

Prepare your body for sleep.

  • Exercise regularly, but avoid strenuous exercise in the 3 hours before bedtime.
  • Eat regular meals. Don’t go to bed hungry. A light snack (nothing heavy, greasy or highly spiced) can help.
  • Notice how caffeine affects you. Some people need to reduce their intake, or at least avoid caffeine in the afternoon and evening.
  • Avoid alcohol in the late evening. Yes it seems to induce relaxation, but it also disrupts the normal sleep cycle, interfering with restorative sleep.
  • Avoid smoking, especially at night. Nicotine is a stimulant.
  • Develop a bedtime routine. Make a to-do list for the next day, to help avoid trying to remember things when you should be relaxing in bed. Take a warm bath or shower. Perhaps set out your clothes for the next day. Listen to relaxing music. Enjoy some light pleasure reading for 15-30 minutes. Learn one of the many forms of relaxation that can help you “let go” of the day and clear your mind.

Final rules.

  • Go to bed and wake up at the same time every day, 7 days a week. Once you’re no longer experiencing sleep difficulty you can indulge in “sleeping in” for 1 hour on the weekends.
  •  Use your bed only for sleep and sexual activity. Do not do your bills, catch up on work, have phone conversations, email, text, or eat in bed. You want to condition your body and mind so that being in bed = sleep.
  •  No clock watching. Turn your clock around or put it on the floor. Watching the minutes tick by tends to increase anxiety and frustration.
  •  If you continue to experience difficulties, despite efforts to change your behavior, psychotherapy is often very helpful. Anxiety or depression can contribute to insomnia. A therapist can help you find ways to “turn off” the thoughts that keep you awake.

What about naps? See the Harvard Health Letter.

Posted in psychotherapy, self-care

Understanding Executive Function

Executive function can be thought of as the project manager or CEO of your brain. It’s in charge of making sure that chosen tasks are completed effectively: understanding what’s expected, planning the steps necessary and meeting the final deadline. Specific executive function skills include Emotional Control, Flexibility, Organization, Self-Monitoring, Task Initiation and Working Memory.

Kids differ in how they use executive skills. Difficulties are likely influenced by genes and heredity, as well as brain differences within the prefrontal cortex. Research has shown that kids with other disabilities and disorders such as ADHD, dyslexia, neurological conditions, mood disorders, autism and acquired brain injury are most often effected. Yet there are ways to help develop and strengthen these skills.

The National Institute of Health Public Access has an article:  Interventions Shown to Aid Executive Function in Children 4–12 Years Old

Posted in children, mental health

Exercise, Mood and Anxiety

“When you have anxiety or depression, exercise often seems like the last thing you want to do. But once you get motivated, exercise can make a big difference.

Exercise helps prevent and improve a number of health problems, including high blood pressure, diabetes and arthritis. Research on anxiety, depression and exercise shows that the psychological and physical benefits of exercise can also help reduce anxiety and improve mood.

The links between anxiety, depression and exercise aren’t entirely clear — but working out can definitely help you relax and make you feel better. Exercise may also help keep anxiety and depression from coming back once you’re feeling better.” Read more from the Mayo Clinic.

More and more experts are emphasizing the importance of exercise, for both mental and physical health, especially for people who are stressed, anxious or depressed. Despite understanding this, many people feel blocked and unmotivated. They don’t have the interest or energy, or doubt if it really will make a difference for them.

This is one of the biggest challenges for people who aren’t feeling well emotionally… they focus on how they feel and make decisions based upon these feelings. Depressed and anxious feelings can’t necessarily be trusted to support your well-being. Better to rely on your common sense to guide decision making at times like this. Give yourself a chance. Even if you don’t feel like it, spending even a short period of time doing the things you know are likely to be helpful can make a difference. Talk with your doctor or therapist about specific strategies that may help you.

Posted in anxiety, depression, psychotherapy, self-care